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Why Targeting Everyone Kills Social Media Growth
Discover the One Person Rule - a proven social media growth strategy used by top creators. Learn why targeting everyone kills engagement and how to create content that converts. Includes real examples and action steps.
If you're struggling to gain traction on social media despite posting consistently, you might be making the most common mistake that kills engagement: trying to speak to everyone.
Today, we're diving deep into the 'One Person' Rule – a game-changing strategy that top creators use to build loyal, engaged audiences.
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The Problem: Why "Everyone" Means "No One"
When you create content for "everyone," you create content for no one. Here's why:
Your brain can't process "everyone" – When you sit down to write a post, your brain needs a specific person to visualize. Without this, your content becomes generic, bland, and forgettable.
Generic content gets ignored – Social media algorithms favor content that generates strong engagement. Generic content that tries to please everyone typically generates weak reactions from everyone.
You lose your authentic voice – Trying to appeal to everyone forces you to water down your personality, opinions, and unique perspective – the very things that make people want to follow you.
The Solution: The 'One Person' Rule
The Rule: Before creating any piece of content, visualize ONE specific person you're speaking to. Write as if you're having a conversation with this one person.
This isn't about limiting your audience – it's about creating content so compelling that thousands of people feel like you're speaking directly to them.
How to Apply the 'One Person' Rule
Step 1: Create Your Avatar
Define your "one person" with these details:
Name and age (e.g., "Sarah, 28")
Profession (e.g., "Marketing manager at a tech startup")
Main challenges (e.g., "Struggles to get leadership buy-in for creative campaigns")
Goals (e.g., "Wants to become a marketing director within 2 years")
Where they hang out online (e.g., "LinkedIn during lunch breaks, Instagram stories in the evening")
Step 2: Write Like You're Texting Them
Before writing any post, literally think: "How would I explain this to Sarah if she texted me asking for help?"
Use:
Direct language ("You know that feeling when...")
Personal pronouns ("Your biggest challenge is probably...")
Conversational tone (Write like you talk)
Specific examples (Instead of "businesses," say "SaaS startups like yours")
Step 3: Address Their Specific Pain Points
Don't just share general tips. Address the exact problems your "one person" faces:
❌ Generic: "Social media is important for businesses"
✅ Specific: "Sarah, I know you're tired of your CEO asking why your Instagram posts only get 12 likes while your competitor gets hundreds"
Real Examples of the 'One Person' Rule in Action
Example 1: Fitness Content
Generic: "Everyone should exercise more"
One Person Rule: "Hey busy mom – I see you scrolling at 10 PM feeling guilty about skipping the gym again. Here's a 15-minute workout you can do after the kids are in bed"
Example 2: Business Content
Generic: "Productivity tips for professionals"
One Person Rule: "To the consultant who checks emails at 11 PM because you're afraid of missing something important – this email batching system saved my sanity"
Example 3: Tech Content
Generic: "AI will change everything"
One Person Rule: "For the marketing manager who just got asked to 'figure out this AI thing' by next Friday – here's your crash course"
The Psychology Behind Why This Works
Mirror Neurons: When people read content that feels personally relevant, their brain literally mirrors the experience, creating a stronger emotional connection.
Parasocial Relationships: Speaking to one person consistently helps followers develop a one-sided relationship with you, increasing loyalty and engagement.
Cognitive Ease: Specific, relatable content is easier for the brain to process and remember, making it more likely to be shared.
Action Steps for This Week
Define Your One Person: Spend 15 minutes creating a detailed avatar of your ideal follower
Audit Your Last 5 Posts: Rewrite the captions as if you're speaking directly to your avatar
Test and Measure: Post using the One Person Rule and compare engagement to your generic posts
Refine: Based on comments and DMs, adjust your avatar to better match your actual engaged followers
Common Mistakes to Avoid
❌ Creating multiple avatars – Stick to ONE person to maintain consistency
❌ Making your avatar too broad – "Young professionals" is still too generic
❌ Ignoring the data – If your avatar isn't engaging, pivot based on who actually responds
❌ Being afraid to niche down – Remember: 1,000 engaged followers beat 10,000 passive ones
This Week's Challenge
For the next 7 days, start every piece of content by writing: "Hey [Your Avatar's Name]..."
Even if you delete it before posting, this simple trick will automatically make your content more personal and engaging.
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